Monogamy, is it relly so good?

Hot topic for today. Being monogamous is really so good? let's start all over with it. Love is a great, amazing and unforgetable experience, nevertheless we're full full of crazy ideas and way too high expectations about being monogamous with our partner (s).

The ideal of love usually comes in a square box where we think all good qualities are based on. Suddenly those ones nobody wants to talk about, are considered as bad and dangerous for a long-term relationship. Things like being promiscuous, having a lover or flirting around are considered as bad behaviours that can damage a healthy loving relationship. But many of us think is the other way around.

Being monogamous is not 100% natural, actually very few people in the world can actually practice it, and when we decide to face it with our partners, usually it brings out a kind of honesty most people aren't prepared for it. Why is it so hard for us to see our partner (s) as human beings who also have needs and like minded guys (girls) who can get horny as we do on the streets, and have wild dreams with the neighboor (if he/she's hot).

Personally, I've always cheated sooner or later in a relationship, and the only one that survived was the one we both decided to be honest and frank about it, and we decided to accept ourselves just as we wre/are. And it's been so far the best relationship I've ever had...

Perhaps exclusivity is not so good after all!