what's after sex anyway?

Many things happen after sex, the most common one is: "ehmm, sorry, what was your name?".... even if it sounds weird, it's the one most people use... especially if you live in a big city....but what happens when you actually want to tell the other (maybe not yet) significant one that you'd like to get to know him/her better?

Many people would run away immediately, not because of the question, but mostly because we're used to be disposable, and to treat people in a disposable way... when someone new comes and says the magic and frightening word of "let's get together again and have a coffee", well kids.... this is a recipe for either a nice friendship and perhaps something even better... or perhaps the other guy/girl will immediately say: "let me check my schedule".....


Let's forget for  a second about the other's possible answer... we do need to be prepared for any possible answer, cause we're talking about feelings, about opening ourselves to other people.. and believe me... many guys/girls out there are afraid as hell to do that!....

First of all, be honest with yourself, if you truely like that person, just be prepared to open yourself, and to let him/her go as well. Once we are prepard for love, we let people be themselves, and if they must go, then they should... but if they say "yes" to our request... then you better be prepared to get to know someone, to open yourself, and to realize there's another human being, just like you, waiting to see what'll happen between the two of you!...

Remember: always keep a life plan in your head, a loved one in your heart, a home to go back to, and a friend to call anytime!